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All izz Well

Love yourself, it is important to stay positive because beauty comes from the inside out. Positivity is something that comes from directly from our soul and lifestyle. Struggle and pain are not all that’s there, even if they’re all we can see in a certain moment. It's not easy to deal with problems but negativity is about finding fault and worry in people and situations. It’s about focusing on the one thing that went wrong when a zillion others went right. And it’s about belittling people without attempting to see who they are. Rather, it’s about choosing to see the good in life, believing in the power of encouragement, and having hope that things will get better .Positive thinking doesn't mean that you keep your head in the sand and ignore life's less pleasant situations. Positive thinking just means that we approach unpleasantness in a more positive and productive way. We think the best is going to happen, not the worst. Positivi...

We dont talk anymore

Its seen that unknowns often become best friends but what do we say when best friends become strangers? Do their conversations change? Do they even talk or ignore each other in public? Deep conversation often take place between those who have close bonding but those conversation are missed when the person suddenly becomes a stranger. We do miss that person ,we miss the crazy ideas we used to share, we miss their presence. We miss how they used to question us for every single thing, their tantrums , the way they used to address us , their one word answer about our fashion sense. We definitely miss their presence because with them we used to share our deepest and darkest secret, it's tough to move on but we have to face the reality... Despite the fact we don't talk anymore, we definitely pray for each other's success and are proud of their achievements. It's tough to have same old conversation with them again but they are the ones with whom we made the best memori...

Sharing emotions during conversation

Conversation is interactive communication between two or more people.The development of conversational skills in a new language is a frequent focus of language teaching and learning. This includes exchange of ideas and emotions between two people. Expressing feelings in a safe way can lead to our feeling more connected , especially to loved ones.  Knowing how to express feelings tactfully therefore is vital if you want to feel close to people and to sustain your  relationships. It's not correct to hide your emotions but to share it in a safe way is always a challenge. Thoughts are fine to share. At the same time, thoughts convey dry information, not the juice of what you are experiencing within.  Feelings have a stronger bonding impact. So while sharing thoughts does build a sense of connection, the connection is less intense than when you also look inside yourself and then share the feelings that you discover there: hopeful, discouraged, pleased, wary, frustrated,...