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Letter To My Best Friend

Who said that a girl and boy cannot be friends... Well to all those who think like that.. Let me tell you I have a crazy best friend and it's a blessing when you find someone who is as crazy and insane as you... Crazy friends make the best friends. They’re the ones who stand out, whose shared memories are always two parts fun and one part completely horrifying. We all want a friend who makes us laugh and listen to our stupid insane daily activities. It doesn't matter whether its a girl or boy. No matter what time it is,  they're always ready for illogical conversations over phone,  WhatsApp and Facebook. Also, you can talk to them anywhere and at any time whether you're listening to songs or washing clothes or studying for an exam...  The truth is, in a world that enforces normality and easily rewards its followers, I think all people would benefit from a little bit of crazy in their lives.It takes you outside of your comfort zone and opens you up to a subtle an...

Bodyshaming leads to Depression

Body shaming is someone trying to make you feel bad for having a body that doesn't conform to cultural beauty ideals. People have a definite notion of “beauty” which defines standards of skin colour, body dimensions, hair length, or the kind of clothes someone should or should not wear. People are always too thin, too fat, too tall, too short, too dark, or too fair for the society, and it has repercussions that are not even realised in everyday life. Body shaming affects mental and physical health in surprising ways- both for the person who is body shaming and the one who is being body shamed. Some believe that making overweight people feel ashamed of their weight or eating habits may motivate them to get healthier. But the reality is that they get more conscious and concerned about their looks, and hence they loose their own personality and imbibe someone else personality,  without even understanding their own strengths. What body-shamers do not understand is that t...

Sometimes its important to be rude...

Rudeness is defined as behaviour that violates social or organisational norms. Norms are our expectations of which behaviours are, or are not, appropriate or acceptable. For example, most people wouldn’t burst into song in the middle of a library, where the norm indicates you should be quiet. But sometimes being polite to others can cause you pain and hatred... Also being rude to those who don't deserve your kind and humble nature is sometimes really important... Who said that it's always important to be good,  sometimes it's important to be bad and discover your wild side... Its true that people around you need another source of entertainment for their own time pass... Reality is when you are rude to someone you just express how you feel about that person,  its just another way to share your opinion. It's true that being rude to everyone ain't a good habit but being to someone doesn't makes you small or disgraceful. Sometimes being kind always end up into ...