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Letter To My Best Friend

Who said that a girl and boy cannot be friends... Well to all those who think like that.. Let me tell you I have a crazy best friend and it's a blessing when you find someone who is as crazy and insane as you... Crazy friends make the best friends. They’re the ones who stand out, whose shared memories are always two parts fun and one part completely horrifying. We all want a friend who makes us laugh and listen to our stupid insane daily activities. It doesn't matter whether its a girl or boy. No matter what time it is,  they're always ready for illogical conversations over phone,  WhatsApp and Facebook. Also, you can talk to them anywhere and at any time whether you're listening to songs or washing clothes or studying for an exam...  The truth is, in a world that enforces normality and easily rewards its followers, I think all people would benefit from a little bit of crazy in their lives.It takes you outside of your comfort zone and opens you up to a subtle an...

Bodyshaming leads to Depression

Body shaming is someone trying to make you feel bad for having a body that doesn't conform to cultural beauty ideals. People have a definite notion of “beauty” which defines standards of skin colour, body dimensions, hair length, or the kind of clothes someone should or should not wear. People are always too thin, too fat, too tall, too short, too dark, or too fair for the society, and it has repercussions that are not even realised in everyday life. Body shaming affects mental and physical health in surprising ways- both for the person who is body shaming and the one who is being body shamed. Some believe that making overweight people feel ashamed of their weight or eating habits may motivate them to get healthier. But the reality is that they get more conscious and concerned about their looks, and hence they loose their own personality and imbibe someone else personality,  without even understanding their own strengths. What body-shamers do not understand is that t...

Sometimes its important to be rude...

Rudeness is defined as behaviour that violates social or organisational norms. Norms are our expectations of which behaviours are, or are not, appropriate or acceptable. For example, most people wouldn’t burst into song in the middle of a library, where the norm indicates you should be quiet. But sometimes being polite to others can cause you pain and hatred... Also being rude to those who don't deserve your kind and humble nature is sometimes really important... Who said that it's always important to be good,  sometimes it's important to be bad and discover your wild side... Its true that people around you need another source of entertainment for their own time pass... Reality is when you are rude to someone you just express how you feel about that person,  its just another way to share your opinion. It's true that being rude to everyone ain't a good habit but being to someone doesn't makes you small or disgraceful. Sometimes being kind always end up into ...

Love Inside You!!!

Love is an incredible feeling. It is one of life’s most fulfilling experiences. The ability to have an affectionate and intimate connection with another person is one of the most important things in life. Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen. It's not negotiable. The more connected you are, the healthier you will be both physically and emotionally. The less connected you are, the more you are at risk. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts. Love is so hard to define because it doesn’t exist as a materialistic thing,  but feeling.We can feel love for our significant others, our parents, friends, children and pets. Some of us direct our love toward God, or celebrities, and we can showcase love for our neighbors, country and objects. Love can be blind, misguided, tragic, unconditional, steadfast and inconsistent. It ...

Youth- The Age where both Mind and Heart is Confused...

Youth is that period when a human is attaining its mature state and development of the body is taking place. This is the period where you get old because you are expected to understand your r esponsibilities and when you wish to do something of your own, you are either pulled back and told that " YOU ARE KID "!! This is that time when you yourself are confused in taking the most important decision of your life. It is the age when a student is confused about what to do, whether he should continue with his studies or to sit for placements. It is that age when a young citizen is confused that to whom he should vote... It is that age when a friend is confused about her relationship with her closest buddy whether the care she has for him is just out of concern or she is getting attracted to him.. They say that the young minds are the most creative minds..but the reality is when they think there is always a conflict between the decisions taken from the heart and mind, they n...

Fake Friendship

Fake friends are one who will drill the holes in your boat to make it leak.  The one who wants to see you well,  but not better than them.  Someone who will support you but behind you will make your problem even worse.  Friends are the one who don't pretend to support you,  but they will support you even when you haven't told them about your problems,but the one who just give lectures and don't execute anything are the ones who are faking it. They just push you in the path of darkness and puddles. They just use you to be in the limelight or for their own selfish reasons. How much heartbreaking or disturbing it may be,  but it's necessary to have a fake friend,  who will make you realise that life is not like a fairytale and will show you the reality. It's tough to accept,  because you thought them to be someone else,  but they changed with time. There friendship is as painful and poisonous,  just like the poison of a snake. They ma...

Placements- Season of Stress

As we enter final year , the one thing that makes our life stressful and annoys us is the placement season. As soon as a final year student enters the college after the vacations , the faculty of college first provides him with placement training and then questions him why he wishes to sit in the placement. From outside placement season may seem to be the most exciting time, because we get to wear formals, get free ODs and labs get cancel. But believe me things aren't as glorifying as it seems to be, it's filled with patience and hardwork. A student who sits for placement hopes that he gets placed in the best company and with a decent package, but reality hits him hard, when he is unable to qualify even the aptitude rounds or when he gets rejected in the HR round, during such situations he only wishes to get placed in any company where he gets some package. The worst feeling is when you suffer from problems like server crash, rescheduling of test dates and having more than ...