Youth Lovers and its Ideas

They say "Good People bring out Good in other people" Every office story starts with a competitive colleague, sugar coated ear fillers, an unsatisfied boss and a secret office crush!! Having a crush on a coworker does not mean you are a bad person. It does not make you into a bad person, either. A crush at work is a very normal reaction to the social environment you're in on a daily basis. A desire to have your emotions and inner desires recognized and responded too without feeling shame or embarrassment. The standard characteristics of a crush at work include fear of rejection from the person you have a crush on. This actually intensifies, rather than constricts, the crush. The fear of rejection creates sensitivity to the behavior of the workplace crush. The person with the crush may become suddenly shy, or the opposite may occur and the person becomes overly excited. Since we spend most of our waking hours at work, it’s normal to get attached to colleagues. Office roman...

Love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness!!  Managing and maintaining a stable career is quite the challenge. But, relationships can be challenging too. Facing two challenges, both important ones can be difficult. You may think that to build a strong relationship you would have to give up on your career. Prioritizing doesn’t mean sacrificing something for something more important. It means organizing everything in a way that they get importance. You can have a strong base for your relationship as well as your career. Let your love and coworkers know that both are mutually important. But, also convey that depending on situations you may have to prioritize between either of them. Whether it is your personal or professional life, healthy communication should be considered important. Let both know what you like and also, about the things which make you uncomfortable. Quit doing anything which doesn’t make you happy. If your partner isn’t somebody who can understand and suppor...

Have you ever experienced being in love with someone who didn’t love you back? It’s probably the most painful thing that could happen to anyone. Some people call it “friend zone”. It happens when someone you love sees you as no more than just a friend. It’s waiting for something that might never happen. It’s looking at someone who doesn’t see you. It’s thinking about someone day and night while you probably never cross their mind. It’s looking at your phone hoping they’d text you or call you as they call someone else. It’s reaching out to them with so much fervor as they respond with indifference. It’s liking the idea of someone. But real love is never one-sided. Real love is reciprocated. Real love is patient. Real love is understanding. Real love is two people embarking on a wonderful journey together with all its ups and downs. It’s two people willingly choosing each other. It’s two people trying to accept each other and love the worst parts of one another. It’s two people promising...

"However long a hug lasts, it doesn’t last long enough." Getting into a relationship, romantic or otherwise, is easy; the task of maintaining one is tough as it requires constant work and dedication from both sides. We try to express our feelings for the other person through words and gestures. Although some people may find it difficult to do so, there are always other means to show affection. Through our hugs and kisses, we make ourselves vulnerable, and in return, ask the other person to do the same.  Oftentimes, we hug an individual for a few seconds, or give a sweet, inviting kiss that conveys our deepest, most loving sentiments. These are the two emotions that when expressed, can conquer hearts every time.  hug can portray many things depending on the context, culture and relationship in which it is used. The word can be used to depict friendship, love, brotherhood, sympathy and affection.People who are sexually active tend to use the gesture to portray their love for ea...

We all talk a lot about work-life balance and handling your attitude and emotions gracefully. But according to a survey a work place can only be happy when we just not have good colleagues but great friends.  You work better when you’re amongst friends. Your morale tends to go up and you’re also able to  be more productive at work . When you have friends at work, blending work and life becomes easy. It’s almost like (metaphorically) going into battle every day and afterwards still having people you can talk to about issues that aren’t necessarily work-related That extra layer of comfort makes the work feel a lot easier. Having friends at work helps you develop more as a person and a professional. This is mostly because you have people that motivate you (or at least make you feel comfortable) helping you out on a daily basis. When you work with friends, it becomes a lot easier to drive in on a Monday morning to dive into another week of frustrations and complications. An emotio...

Navigating a new relationship can be tricky, especially when it comes time to tell your family about the new person in your life. The point at which you choose to talk about someone you're seeing depends on your family dynamic, how serious the relationship is, and your own personality.  When two people get into a relationship, a lot of important things will happen for the two of you. You will get to know each other and you will get to know each other’s friends. Another huge milestone is telling your parents that you have a boyfriend. Merging your lives together is a huge deal. Depending on how your parents feel about you dating, this step can either be exciting or stressful. Either way, you probably feel anxious and hope that your parents will like your boyfriend and that they will get along with him. After all, you love your parents and you care about your boyfriend, so you will want them to be on board. When you are telling your parents about your boyfriend for the first time, k...