Single but Independent
Valentine is around the corner, and we find many couples celebrating it in the most romantic way, yet their are some people who are single and happy.
Being single is not a curse but a blessing. Very few people in the world get a privilege to be single and live the life of their choice. When a person is single she/he can enjoy their life and live it with their families and friends. Also we tend to become more independent and analyse our abilities. When you are single you don't need to adjust and most importantly you don't tend to change yourself.
Its true that when we are with someone else he/ she feels precious when someone else cares for you but yet their are adjustment issues . Whereas, when we fight with our friends in a day or two we apologize and tend to patch up and still don't loose our self respect.
Being in relationship sometimes become a burden and also tend to divert our mind from achieving goals. Its not a curse to be in relationship but yet the decisions that one takes from themselves shouldn't be taken in someone else pressure, because it's your life and no one has the right to control it. No one else can love you the way you can love yourself.
Nature has it's way of luring us into reproduction and hence the innate and quite esoteric urge to seek the a soulmate. I solemnly agree to the parks of being single and not confusing in sometime and ending the search, but history is evident that human has always lost to nature. We must enjoy being single till it lasts.
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