People try to prove others wrong!!!
In the choice between changing ones mind and proving others wrong, most people get busy on the proof!
We say that 21st century has a fast moving lifestyle, but sadly today the people are emotionless and just try to put the blame on others. Proving others wrong may provide you with temporary satisfaction and happiness, but analysing your own mistakes and rectifying them may sound tough but would provide you with permanent happiness.
Blaming someone else is the most easy way to ignore others , but communicating and understanding someone will clear your doubts.You become right in a situation when you move the conversation from a disagreement to a shared understanding — and even then, it doesn’t mean the other person is wrong. You cannot overlook the fact that just as tightly as you are holding the conviction in what you think, know, or are an expert in, the other person in the conversation is likely holding their beliefs as true. And when you run up against the same issues repeatedly, it is time to change the approach.
Denial is not the solution for everything , Acceptance sometimes also plays a major role.
It's easy to break someone's trust and blaming him/ her , without even knowing the truth.
Trying to prove someone else wrong will not prove you right, whereas it may reveal your guilt and mistake. Judging someone unnecessarily is not appropriate when you aren't aware of the truth.
Being the bigger person isn’t about conceding or caving, and it is not about insisting “you are the bigger person.” With all communication, it is a balance, and with this approach, you will often find that difficult agreements and conversations are solved a lot more easily than you expected.
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