Youth Lovers and its Ideas

Love, often described as the universal language that binds humanity, need not always be expressed through loud declarations or grand gestures. There's a unique and beautiful facet of love that finds its home in silence—the silent love that speaks volumes through unspoken understanding and heartfelt connection. In this blog, we unravel the beauty and depth of silent love, celebrating the whispers of the heart that echo love's true essence. Silent love, also known as unspoken love, is a form of affection that doesn't rely on verbal expressions. It's a deep and profound connection that thrives on unspoken understanding. In a world of chatter and noise, silent love is like a serene oasis where two hearts find solace. Silent love often manifests through tender gestures. A soft touch, a warm hug, a reassuring squeeze of the hand—these gestures carry a depth of love that transcends spoken words. Actions have a way of conveying emotions and intentions, painting a beautiful canv...

They say "Good People bring out Good in other people" Every office story starts with a competitive colleague, sugar coated ear fillers, an unsatisfied boss and a secret office crush!! Having a crush on a coworker does not mean you are a bad person. It does not make you into a bad person, either. A crush at work is a very normal reaction to the social environment you're in on a daily basis. A desire to have your emotions and inner desires recognized and responded too without feeling shame or embarrassment. The standard characteristics of a crush at work include fear of rejection from the person you have a crush on. This actually intensifies, rather than constricts, the crush. The fear of rejection creates sensitivity to the behavior of the workplace crush. The person with the crush may become suddenly shy, or the opposite may occur and the person becomes overly excited. Since we spend most of our waking hours at work, it’s normal to get attached to colleagues. Office roman...

Love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness!!  Managing and maintaining a stable career is quite the challenge. But, relationships can be challenging too. Facing two challenges, both important ones can be difficult. You may think that to build a strong relationship you would have to give up on your career. Prioritizing doesn’t mean sacrificing something for something more important. It means organizing everything in a way that they get importance. You can have a strong base for your relationship as well as your career. Let your love and coworkers know that both are mutually important. But, also convey that depending on situations you may have to prioritize between either of them. Whether it is your personal or professional life, healthy communication should be considered important. Let both know what you like and also, about the things which make you uncomfortable. Quit doing anything which doesn’t make you happy. If your partner isn’t somebody who can understand and suppor...

Have you ever experienced being in love with someone who didn’t love you back? It’s probably the most painful thing that could happen to anyone. Some people call it “friend zone”. It happens when someone you love sees you as no more than just a friend. It’s waiting for something that might never happen. It’s looking at someone who doesn’t see you. It’s thinking about someone day and night while you probably never cross their mind. It’s looking at your phone hoping they’d text you or call you as they call someone else. It’s reaching out to them with so much fervor as they respond with indifference. It’s liking the idea of someone. But real love is never one-sided. Real love is reciprocated. Real love is patient. Real love is understanding. Real love is two people embarking on a wonderful journey together with all its ups and downs. It’s two people willingly choosing each other. It’s two people trying to accept each other and love the worst parts of one another. It’s two people promising...

"However long a hug lasts, it doesn’t last long enough." Getting into a relationship, romantic or otherwise, is easy; the task of maintaining one is tough as it requires constant work and dedication from both sides. We try to express our feelings for the other person through words and gestures. Although some people may find it difficult to do so, there are always other means to show affection. Through our hugs and kisses, we make ourselves vulnerable, and in return, ask the other person to do the same.  Oftentimes, we hug an individual for a few seconds, or give a sweet, inviting kiss that conveys our deepest, most loving sentiments. These are the two emotions that when expressed, can conquer hearts every time.  hug can portray many things depending on the context, culture and relationship in which it is used. The word can be used to depict friendship, love, brotherhood, sympathy and affection.People who are sexually active tend to use the gesture to portray their love for ea...

We all talk a lot about work-life balance and handling your attitude and emotions gracefully. But according to a survey a work place can only be happy when we just not have good colleagues but great friends.  You work better when you’re amongst friends. Your morale tends to go up and you’re also able to  be more productive at work . When you have friends at work, blending work and life becomes easy. It’s almost like (metaphorically) going into battle every day and afterwards still having people you can talk to about issues that aren’t necessarily work-related That extra layer of comfort makes the work feel a lot easier. Having friends at work helps you develop more as a person and a professional. This is mostly because you have people that motivate you (or at least make you feel comfortable) helping you out on a daily basis. When you work with friends, it becomes a lot easier to drive in on a Monday morning to dive into another week of frustrations and complications. An emotio...

Navigating a new relationship can be tricky, especially when it comes time to tell your family about the new person in your life. The point at which you choose to talk about someone you're seeing depends on your family dynamic, how serious the relationship is, and your own personality.  When two people get into a relationship, a lot of important things will happen for the two of you. You will get to know each other and you will get to know each other’s friends. Another huge milestone is telling your parents that you have a boyfriend. Merging your lives together is a huge deal. Depending on how your parents feel about you dating, this step can either be exciting or stressful. Either way, you probably feel anxious and hope that your parents will like your boyfriend and that they will get along with him. After all, you love your parents and you care about your boyfriend, so you will want them to be on board. When you are telling your parents about your boyfriend for the first time, k...

They say we always gain by giving love.There's nothing quite like knowing you've found your person -- the one you can count on to cuddle with you nightly, talk with about your day and share intimate secrets.. . When you’re single, life seems to be all about you: your schedule, your time, your goals. But when you become smitten by that special someone, things change. You first catch each other’s eye, you go on a first date, and then you wonder how you ever lived without this person in your life. Unfortunately, there’s evidence out there that throws a wrench in the notion that being in a happy relationship is always beneficial to one’s health. New couples tend to go out more than established couples, which often means fewer healthy meals, and time spent sipping cocktails while gazing into each other’s eyes. While sweet and romantic, these new infatuations can also mean weight gain!! ! A recent  study  published on the  American Psychologica...

     Delhi girls possess a heart of gold. No matter how bold and full of attitude they are. They have that soft side inside them which makes them capable of understanding others. It is for sure that she will be there with you not only in your happy times but also at a time when you need someone to talk to about your problems. Delhi girls are independent and they just love to be like that and enjoy their independence. if you are dating a Delhi girl then you will not be worried much. She will manage all her work very efficiently without your assistance.  Delhi girls are born foodies. Delhi is widely famous for its food joints so it is quite natural for them to be of such kind. They can take you to the best food joints in the city that will offer you some mouthwatering stuff.  Delhi girls are very enthusiastic by nature. The mere presence of theirs can make the whole environment very lively. They know very well how to enjoy each and every moment of life....

The process of love sometimes means unexpected detours. It really is amazing when someone comes into your life and you expect absolutely nothing out of it, but suddenly, right there in front of you, is everything you ever need. I guess sometimes, you meet a person and you just click, you’re comfortable with them, like you’ve known them your whole life and you don’t have to pretend to be anyone or anything, you’re just you because that’s how it should be. Sometimes we don't need to find love, it automatically finds its way to reach you... The best love is unexpected. You don’t just pick someone and cross your fingers it’ll work out, you meet them by fate and it’s an instant connection, and the chemistry between you is way above your head. You just talk and notice the way their lips curve when they smile or the color of their eyes and all at once you know you’re either lucky or screwed.  Loving someone is a very active process. Love is not just a feeling you have; it’s suppo...

Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you're going to live your life!!! It is true that optimists, or positive thinkers, are at an advantage in life compared to pessimists. This is because of the effect your mindset and attitude have on everything we come across. Our social relationships, our job and also our health are an integral part of everyday life  and we can feel how negative and positive thoughts can have a domino effect on everything we do during the day. What a person preaches and wishes for is mirrored in everything he does... Sometimes when we think about the future, we can find ourselves lost in pessimistic visions that create nothing but unnecessary fear and worry in us. Since no one can really predict what is going to happen.  They will not prevent anything and just worrying about something that may never even occur seems pointless if you look at it from a rational point of view. Now, if we are really te...

Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new. When you take responsibility for your life, serendipitous events unfold and lead you to awaken your inherent wisdom. At this level you must be willing to step out of your comfort zone and meet life with passion and fervour. In an increasingly competitive, cautious and accelerated world, those who are willing to take risks, step out of their comfort zone and into the discomfort of uncertainty will be those who will reap the biggest rewards. As children, we're natural risk-takers. But as we get older and learn to fear failure, we start holding ourselves back and attempting fewer new things. This comes at a high cost to our tremendous potential for lifelong growth and transformation. Our comfort zones tend to shrink as we get older -- but if we can keep expanding them, we'll open ourselves up to greater fulfillment and improved well-being as we...

Sister or best friend? Sometimes, you can't tell the difference. Granted, your college bestie hasn't quite been there since day one. But, she's completely stolen a piece of your heart. In fact she is that first person with whom you can share anything and everything.. Whether it's an object,  gossips, or any moment. You can randomly go to her room,  just to use her washroom or to give her an oil massage. You are so close that you let each other raid the closet. Sometimes you share each other nail polish and sometimes you become each other's fashion advisor. When you are hungry and you have nothing to eat,  she's the first person you contact. You always meet each other at a specific spot. Whenever you're planning on meeting up in the middle of the day, you know exactly where to go. In a lot of ways, it's made your university feel smaller and more like home. Growing up, you and your sister had places like this, too, that got dubbed "your spot....

"Absence makes the heart grow fonder"!!! Sometimes we make promises to stay together forever but yet time changes everything and for everyone... Every relationship doesn't have a prosperous future,  you maybe physically present but yet avoiding each other.. Sometimes there may be situations where you both are correct in your own ways but yet together you are poles apart and end up in conflict.. It's said that conflict in relationships make the bond more stronger and healthy... But every time it's not true.   It breaks your heart,  it breaks your trust and it breaks your friendship. Sometimes we keep on thinking about them and our relationship with them... Of what we were and what we are... Despite of the fact that you aren't together yet you miss them and think about them every single day... The perfect relationship between you both.. Suddenly becomes a strange known relationship.. Every person sitting with you ain't not be close to you now.. Becau...

Who said that a girl and boy cannot be friends... Well to all those who think like that.. Let me tell you I have a crazy best friend and it's a blessing when you find someone who is as crazy and insane as you... Crazy friends make the best friends. They’re the ones who stand out, whose shared memories are always two parts fun and one part completely horrifying. We all want a friend who makes us laugh and listen to our stupid insane daily activities. It doesn't matter whether its a girl or boy. No matter what time it is,  they're always ready for illogical conversations over phone,  WhatsApp and Facebook. Also, you can talk to them anywhere and at any time whether you're listening to songs or washing clothes or studying for an exam...  The truth is, in a world that enforces normality and easily rewards its followers, I think all people would benefit from a little bit of crazy in their lives.It takes you outside of your comfort zone and opens you up to a subtle an...

Body shaming is someone trying to make you feel bad for having a body that doesn't conform to cultural beauty ideals. People have a definite notion of “beauty” which defines standards of skin colour, body dimensions, hair length, or the kind of clothes someone should or should not wear. People are always too thin, too fat, too tall, too short, too dark, or too fair for the society, and it has repercussions that are not even realised in everyday life. Body shaming affects mental and physical health in surprising ways- both for the person who is body shaming and the one who is being body shamed. Some believe that making overweight people feel ashamed of their weight or eating habits may motivate them to get healthier. But the reality is that they get more conscious and concerned about their looks, and hence they loose their own personality and imbibe someone else personality,  without even understanding their own strengths. What body-shamers do not understand is that t...

Rudeness is defined as behaviour that violates social or organisational norms. Norms are our expectations of which behaviours are, or are not, appropriate or acceptable. For example, most people wouldn’t burst into song in the middle of a library, where the norm indicates you should be quiet. But sometimes being polite to others can cause you pain and hatred... Also being rude to those who don't deserve your kind and humble nature is sometimes really important... Who said that it's always important to be good,  sometimes it's important to be bad and discover your wild side... Its true that people around you need another source of entertainment for their own time pass... Reality is when you are rude to someone you just express how you feel about that person,  its just another way to share your opinion. It's true that being rude to everyone ain't a good habit but being to someone doesn't makes you small or disgraceful. Sometimes being kind always end up into ...

Love is an incredible feeling. It is one of life’s most fulfilling experiences. The ability to have an affectionate and intimate connection with another person is one of the most important things in life. Love is as critical for your mind and body as oxygen. It's not negotiable. The more connected you are, the healthier you will be both physically and emotionally. The less connected you are, the more you are at risk. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts. Love is so hard to define because it doesn’t exist as a materialistic thing,  but feeling.We can feel love for our significant others, our parents, friends, children and pets. Some of us direct our love toward God, or celebrities, and we can showcase love for our neighbors, country and objects. Love can be blind, misguided, tragic, unconditional, steadfast and inconsistent. It ...

Youth is that period when a human is attaining its mature state and development of the body is taking place. This is the period where you get old because you are expected to understand your r esponsibilities and when you wish to do something of your own, you are either pulled back and told that " YOU ARE KID "!! This is that time when you yourself are confused in taking the most important decision of your life. It is the age when a student is confused about what to do, whether he should continue with his studies or to sit for placements. It is that age when a young citizen is confused that to whom he should vote... It is that age when a friend is confused about her relationship with her closest buddy whether the care she has for him is just out of concern or she is getting attracted to him.. They say that the young minds are the most creative minds..but the reality is when they think there is always a conflict between the decisions taken from the heart and mind, they n...

Fake friends are one who will drill the holes in your boat to make it leak.  The one who wants to see you well,  but not better than them.  Someone who will support you but behind you will make your problem even worse.  Friends are the one who don't pretend to support you,  but they will support you even when you haven't told them about your problems,but the one who just give lectures and don't execute anything are the ones who are faking it. They just push you in the path of darkness and puddles. They just use you to be in the limelight or for their own selfish reasons. How much heartbreaking or disturbing it may be,  but it's necessary to have a fake friend,  who will make you realise that life is not like a fairytale and will show you the reality. It's tough to accept,  because you thought them to be someone else,  but they changed with time. There friendship is as painful and poisonous,  just like the poison of a snake. They ma...